Get rid of the approval voice
I find that a lot of men who are afraid to talk to women, whoops, I mean “approach anxiety, suffer from many minds. There is a past mind, a hurt mind, a depressed mind, and then the imaginary minds of the woman and what she thinks. If I’m a loser and I see a woman, I automatically formulate thoughts for her. Why? Because that’s what I choose to do. These are my friends, and they keep me company. My friends are doubt, self-hatred, rage and jealousy and they come everywhere I go. I imagine all women hate me and men are better than me. That’s what I walk around with in my mind. I have these big ass suitcases that come with me.
What a poor woman who must inherit those things. They call it baggage from a woman, but I contend that a man’s baggage is far worse, far bigger and far more violent and tremendous.
When I review different channels, I'm thoroughly convinced that a man has an inner game and technical mastery. A great technical skill would be to speak very clearly from your actual self-owned mind. We may discuss who owns your mind one day. But inner game wise, we got to cut that baggage loose, cut those past failures loose and get back to being us. All those voices from the past mean we live in a walking horror show, all day every day. Fuck that.
Pick your worst baggage and get in the gym and attack that shit. Learn those triggers, learn who hurt us the most and let it go. Forgive that shit for lack of knowledge and youth and learn the hard lessons from our shitty behavior. But work at killing it because we can't keep bringing that shit everywhere we go, with every interaction, with every woman. It’s killing our speech, our walk, our confidence, and it’s a heavy, heavy burden on our minds.
You may have family, other losers, and shitty women filling you with baggage. But remember, you make the ultimate decision to take it in, carry it and then add onto it every day. If someone says I have a little dick, I can believe them, but every second and hour I spend meditating on that and every woman I bring that to, I'm sorry, homes, that shit is all on me.
The world has enough old resentments and self-loathing and victim pillows and self-hatred. Don’t copy that bitch shit.
What you could do is replace those losers and horrible emotions and baggage, full of power that is good, peace, genius, strength, relentlessness, greatness, positivity, communication skills, all of those things. But we got to kill the virus before we have a cure.
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