If you gonna talk emotional intelligence, I think a lot of it is identifying my triggers and insecurities, so some mf or some bitch don’t play me out. It takes a lot to step back and play the long game. I mean it takes emotional strength to do that shit. Some a man is supposed to be built for.
Say some woman said I have a little dick and it really sticks with me. But me pulling back and looking at that, I might not like this bitch and the bitch was wack in bed anyway. But I might also look at adapting sexually with my mouth, toys and fingers. Plus, most people don’t have huge dicks so what the fuck? Vagina is three to five inches long anyway and the clit is the most powerful thing anyway. No, I’m probably not hitting the A-spot, but that emotional butt hurt shit might fuck up every sexual experience after that.
And you need to know what gets you heated. If anyone can pull on your coat and make you an angry motherfucker like The Hulk, now a woman knows how to play me out. Now my boss can play me. Now a politician or a business partner can play me.
I’m not saying don’t have dealbreakers or charging offenses, or people you don’t fuck with. I’m saying knowing what gives you problems and stress and pulls you off track is a big thing.
You might always need your father’s approval. But it constrains you and when you don't get it, you hella mad and butt hurt. You got to pull back and see how you see yourself. Why do you need his approval so badly? Why does that fuck up your day? How can you make your approval jump the line to the top spot?
It’s a lot more to emotional intelligence but learn how to handle your shit and you can learn how to handle other motherfuckers and women who can’t handle theirs. You wanted to be on the mountain, there’s a reason you up there and down there with the rest of the normal motherfuckers.
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