I got a new car last year and they gave me Sirius XM for a year. I didn’t know Sirius XM was gamed up.
See, I started liking it over regular radio. You can get a hundred styles of music and sports and news, whatever flavor. International shit. Comedy shows.
Then, one day, it was gone. I was mad as hell. I wanted to relax in my car but now the radio was local bullshit. So I looked it up and they got me for a really small fee. Started negotiating with myself. Well, if it's ten bucks, I'll pay that. Whatever.
Lucky me. Five bucks a month. That’s a good deal. I also saw they gonna get me for 25 dollars a month in a year. But I didn't care. That's a year away, right?
See, Sirius XM knows it’s value. And all it did was give me a taste and let me get comfortable and then took it away. That's game right there. I’m negotiating my money away and they gonna want more money in a year. They played the game long. They turned up the temperature of their value slowly, until I’m a crab in boiling water.
I remember Amazon did the same thing. They had everybody locked in for about seventy dollars. Then one day, they said it’s an even hundo. All their customers flipped out fairy some of them even left and went to go back to brick-and-mortar stores and other places. But most of us, the motherfuckers that made them billionaires, stay right where we were because we had seen and felt and experienced the value and we didn't give a fuck if we had to pay an extra thirty bucks.
When a man has value, there's a bunch of ways to play his game. You can play it off on some short money and just think that her sex is the reward. Or you can play it slower, let her get comfortable and slowly turn up the temperature of what you desire and need from this woman. Once she has seen the unmistakable value and felt it and experienced it, that true man shit, all she can do is negotiate how much she's going to give and nine times out of ten, it will be for exactly what you need.
This ain't like holding money over her head, or even good dick. Its an understanding of all of your value.
Like Amazon, if every year you add something new, like a streaming service or added benefits, the woman will reciprocate in turn. She has to. Or your value will go to her competitors and everyone else around her can be experiencing the value of you rather than her. Make no mistake, in addition to feeling the loss of a true man, it burns a woman's ass to think of another woman getting his time and his dick and his insight and his wisdom and his leadership and his structure and his fun and his adventure while she sits at home with dude who is boring and lazy and thunderstruck.
Maximize your masculine value, and one of the byproducts will be, when dealing with women, you will have true negotiating power. It’s not sexy or romantic to think like that, I know. I’ve had plenty of dudes scream at me about their romance and how a woman changed their lives, and she’s the mother of my children and she’s my soul.
That shit is valuable to them, so good on them. Me? I want more. I’m not giving a woman a whole damn lifestyle and adventure and protection and sex and fun and leadership so I can win my own damn soul or have a companionship. That’s an uneven exchange. On the street or in the boardrooms, that’s an uneven exchange.
Sometimes they get cute. Okay, I'll do some laundry. Okay, I'll cook three nights a week. that's like America telling black people they can vote in 1968 after they done had that shit for two hundred years. And the one doing the getting is always gonna make you feel as if your losing ass side is getting great value.
Sex is equal value for most. We both trying to feel pleasure and have some good sexual play. But a woman will treat that vagina of hers like it’s worth a kingdom. And she will have most convinced that it is.
Yeah, unless you have a bunch of things and actions and feelings they really, truly want and need.
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