A man must assert himself in words and actions. He must stop tip-toeing around his woman. He needs to tell her that he requires peace and a submissive nature and a woman who will support him and his design for their relationship. Her traumas, her past problems, her exes are not to be introduced into the current and future direction of the relationship. You can look at her and look her know, “I respect what you went through and I’m happy to talk about it with you but I will not be your psychiatrist and I cannot let the past affect every choice you make now. Either you want to handle it and move forward, or you just want to use it as an excuse every time you feel sad.” You can make your woman actually a better woman in life, but you have to set boundaries and give her expectations and hold her accountable inside of the relationship space.
Now, a woman should be getting refreshed in the tree of your leadership almost every single day. You should have things you have thought about, and things you pay attention to, or wisdom to impart to her. There will be times when you have to kick ass, there will be times when you have to straighten her out, but she should feel that she can come to a place of peace and relaxation and affirmation. A lot of tough guys and players and pimps don't believe in making sure the woman feels good about herself and I submit to you that I understand what they're saying, but I still think she needs to know she's a valuable member of your team and that you recognize and see her beauty and her drive and the difficulties she goes through as a woman. One of the bigger mistakes I’ve made is not realizing what her menstrual period feels like to her or that sometimes she feels gross and sometimes she needs physical passion and appreciation and to feel special. A good boss/coach recognizes how to get the most out of people, but his people also need to be recognized for their hard work.
A lot of Christians they wander around church, and they don't feel valued but when their pastor takes time to recognize them in a sermon or when they're elected to a better position within the church, they begin to feel more important, and a keyword is here valued. She wants to feel that she is valuable to you. Remember, and I will beat this horse to death, you have to show the world who you are.
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